Hello everyone, I wish you all a good day. I’m a person that values people and connections with them and tries to appreciate and help other people with respect and consideration as much as possible. So in this occasion I seek for someone willing to get to know me and let me know him and if possible build together a meaningful relationship and connection in a long-term period preferred. In particular I’m into many things and have a lot of interests and kinks and passions but I think it’s more effective that the interested ones come to ask me about the things they wanna know to be more specific for them. But just to have some guidance I’ll describe some generalities so you can ask me from there if I’ve omitted something or if you want to know something else. I’m a 24 years old cis-man, homosexual, bi-affectionate(perhaps), I’m usually more into the Dom role but may in certain things and contexts switch. But in any case I believe that BDSM is just another expression of our sexualities and live experiences but it has not to be everything around it (it can also be as well but not need to) and also not everything centered around sex as i believe although sex is an important part of our lives but our lives are much more plural than that. In regard to what I like or seek I can say that I would like to find someone with whom as I said I could make a meaningful connection that can derive to a long term relationship and complement each other. I really would like to explore things together and find out what we like in our lives and encourage and complete and complement each other and be a good influence to each other to help us grow together and even if we engage in a power exchange dynamic I would like that in the sentimental (or romantic if any) and relational aspects we both are at a equity level and both have voice and vote (it can also include the not having them in certain contexs like in sessions or as a game but everything must be consensual so ultimately you must decide as well at least to consent and I’m opened to negotiate with subs if the situation arrives) and are both actively passionate and motivated to the engagement and relationship and work towards building something nice. I mean it doesn’t matter if we engage in a D/s relationship or switch- switch engagement or a Dom -Dom one or a more vanilla one with BDSM spots but my idea is that I don’t have to put all the effort on my side so I want to get to build a relationship in which even if we engage in power exchange dynamics we’re still passionate partners and both put energy and effort on the relationship and suggest ideas and like it and that it’s good rewarding and constructive for both. I’m also into the ethical non monogamy like mainly open relationships or eventually poly ones if someone is interested but well in a possibility it can be developed throughout time or after stabilising something between us. As I said I prefer not to be all about sex and kinky stuff but well that are also a good part of this and well the important thing is that I believe in that a loving and compassionate and meaningful and ethical relationship can be of this characteristics including BDSM as well.

Some examples of kinks I usually like are giving joi, edging,cum denial, orgasm denial, jerking off denial and porn denial, cum and orgasm control, porn consumption control, perhaps giving rules and eventually rewards and punishments, chastity, playing with toys, challenges and tasks, CBT and maybe many others bur better ask me to know more. Recently I found the helping achieve some goals and keeping subs or switches accountable like in a training goal or similar is some of my interests in this area as well but as I said it’s better that you ask me for knowing better. And also I must say that I usually am busy and have a lot of things to do throughout the days so for all this to work well we’ll need the will to do it and good planning and perhaps rules and limits and systems and good organisation and tolerance of the possible shortages of time and obstacles sometimes so if you’re not so patient or use to ghost people or aren’t committed or don’t like what I wrote please don’t make the both of us to waste our time. And as a kind of disclaimer I must say that I’m not so experienced in this kind of things and still exploring many of them but just tell you for you to know in advance but that doesn’t mean it’s an obstacle if you don’t mind it. Take into account that I prefer if you are also open minded and eventually would consider to also develop feelings to each other and build something long term commited and meaningful not just a sex superficial and quick paced thing but rest assured that it also can be as fun and nice as other engagements in which you participate before but perhaps more meaningful if we both work towards it. And if you’re more vanilla but just BDSM curios don’t hesitate to contact me as well since I’m also potentially interested in you and if you want we can explore BDSM and our sexualities and related together while we build a relationship at the same time given similar values as before. I think it’s better not to engage with straight guys or not compatible people like not so flexible or not open minded but if you read untill here and found it interesting just hit me up on DM regardless of whatever and we’ll see as I’m also open minded and try to have some levels of flexibility. I stress out that I value consent ethically treating each other and compassionate acting and safety and commitment and respect and affectionate responsibility. I can only engage in distance relationships and possibly ldr, but would prefer not so much time difference but may do some exceptions eventually (timezone UTC-3). Well there are lots of other things I think and may want to say but as this message is already quite long please fell free to ask me what you want. So if you read until reaching this point thank you very much and sorry for the long post and if you’re interested feel free to DM me and find out more and start something nice with me.

PLEASE when contacting me try to be clear on what you’re looking for and I suggest you to start by introducing yourself and what you’re seeking concretely and what you found interesting of me and what you look for by engaging with me as well as any other useful information you wanna share or whatever you want to ask me or tell me. Ok thanks for reading till reach here and sorry again for the long message Best regards to everyone and blessings for all.