Hi sassy boys,

The short version is I'm a 33 year old, gay man, trying to embrace his top side. I'm not looking for a casual encounter/hookup, more so a friendship with some (non)/sexual elements mixed in or even something long term. Online to start cool too.

The longer version: I'm looking for an unconventional friendship/relationship with someone who has a little bit of extra junk in the trunk. I always thought I was more of a bottom, but over the past few years have realized I might be a top-in-denial.

Teasing/torturing me with rubbing it in my face? With teasing my cock? Humiliating/making fun of how hard I get? Mandatory face sitting? Stuff like that?

Outside of sexual/kink interests, I work as a freelancer in academic publishing. I'm fairly nerdy, and on the Dad-Bod side of average (working on it!). Into music, art/culture (especially folk stuff), stay up to date with technology/design.