Me: I'm 35, and have been a Dom and Keyholder for over 20 years (god that makes me sound old). I've worked with numerus bois over the years, both in person and online. I'm what most would consider a "soft top" in that I will keep you locked away, performing task for me, but also want to check in on your day, and how you life outside of kink is going. While this hobby we all share is amazing, nobody can be "on" 24/7, so finding each bois balance between kink and "real life" is always needed. Kink is a balance, and the goal will always be to find out where you are today, where you want to be, and push you towards those goals. I'm into chastity, bondage, humiliation, tasks, public play, underwear, toys (plugs, gags, hoods), joi, cum control, sph, and many others. Have always been interested in working with a pup boy, but never found the right one.

You: The most important aspect to me is communication. Sometimes chastity can be hard, but that's never an excuse to stop communicating. Ups, downs, successes, desires, all of that is something I expect my bois to share and communicate with me (and this is obviously a 2 way street). Preferably over 25 as younger bois tend to not understand the commitment this takes, however open any age if you're willing to prove you get it. You should have the financial means to take care of yourself, not waiting months to make $50-100 purchases (I never require my bois to buy things, but it is fun to help them build out a toy/underwear collection). Chasity device is a must though. Beyond that I really don't care who you are or what you look like, so long as you're willing to put in the work, and have a desire to be locked away.