I'm 30 and living in the greater Minneapolis-St. Paul area in Minnesota. I have a job that requires me to stay relatively discreet, but I have pictures to share once a conversation is established. I'm well educated, a business owner, and know what I want in a relationship. I’m a stocky and hairy guy – large and in charge exterior with a refined loving and dominant interior.
Ultimately, I'm looking for a boy to own as my property. I'm looking for a total power exchange relationship in which my slave is also my 'boyfriend'. I want a real relationship - I can't emphasize that enough. There are a lot of ways to label this type of relationship, but if the terms Master and slave, Dom and sub, Man and fagwife/boiwife, or Owner and property catch your eye, keep reading. I'm looking for someone relatively close to my age. I'm open to most body types, but I have a soft spot for boys who fit the “twunk” stereotype.
I've come to realize that in this pursuit, common interests need to go beyond sexual compatibility. I'm passionate about social equity and enjoy nerdy things like Star Wars and Pokémon. I play a lot of video games, card games, and board games when I have spare time. I'm very much a home-body, but I can be persuaded to go out and have adventures with the right person. Family is super important to me, as are my friends and my cat.
Regarding kink, my main passion is about everyday servitude. I'm not big on elaborate scenes, although they can be fun once in a while. I'm about my boy doing everything he can to make my life better on a daily basis. My needs should and will be met with no expectation of reciprocation. I do expect my slave to also work outside the home at least part time to contribute to the household financially. My slave should put my sexual, emotional, and domestic needs above all else.
I'm into a variety of sexual things, kinky and otherwise: Anal Sex Body Worship Chastity (this is essentially non-negotiable) Financial Domination (think 1950s - the Man controls the household finances, only applicable after trust is developed and a relationship established) Flogging Humiliation (mostly verbal) Oral Sex Rimming Spanking Watersports (including serving as my personal urinal)
My limits include: Blood Illegal Activities Scat Sounding
I feel compelled to note that communication is one of the most important pieces to this kind of relationship. I expect those who contact me to be straight forward about their desires and to continue open and honest communication. If something doesn't feel right, talk to me about it. I expect communication of thoughts and feelings to be a constant so we both get what we need out of this relationship.
I enjoy talking with people from all over, but they must be serious about pursuing ownership and open to relocation if applicable. Also, I like butts a lot - show me yours.
Are you the slave that I deserve?
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