I am a 32 years old, fairly in shape cis male who recently discovered a new found interest in BDSM and I want to learn more about it. I'm looking to explore this side of myself with a more experienced Dom or possibly a switch. From what I've researched, my ideal type is a soft dom, older if possible with a fit daddy vibe to them. I myself am more of a "bratty" sub who wants a Dom who can prove themselves and assert their dominance over me through different ways, chief among them being through mutual trust and the knowledge that whovever I give my subservience to won't use it against me or hurt me in ways I don't consent to. If I find a switch who might help me discover my more dominant side, even better.

I know I'm new, but I'm hoping that more experience with this will help me become a better sub or help find where I fit in in all this. I also need a softer Dom because my life requires a lot of time and effort on my part and I won't always be able to respond in the same way most subs might be able to, and I'm hoping that they will understand that. I want my Dom to respect my limitations and boundaries and I hope that by doing so I'll be able to give more of myself to them and will be willing to be more submissive.

For now, all our interactions have to be online and mostly through text as I am living in a not so ideal situation for video chats but I am willing to share photos of myself if we click. Please hmu on my profile here if you're interested and we can discuss kinks and take it from there. It should also be noted that I am not into the more extreme kinks (scat, excessive pain, blood, permanent markings etc.) but we can discuss more about it after we get acquainted.