Hi Sir, thanks for taking the time to read.

I'm a 33 year old straight, middle class male. And I do mean straight. I've got enough experience with men to know that I'm not attracted to them. Which might make it seem strange that I'm here.

I'm posting here for 2 reasons. 1. It's hard to find the compatible person to scratch my sub itch. And there's plenty more men online than women. Supply and demand, plus us guys are all a bit more forward and eager when it comes to reaching out. 2. There's something emasculating about serving a man that I'm not actually attracted to. Something that feels more like being used.

That said, because I'm not sexually attracted you're relying on getting a good submissive response from me to get me to follow your lead. Not everyone on here seems to understand how to be firm without being too forward, how to push while still showing respect for consent. If you don't know how to type out a paragraph, I'm not going to be pulled in by you.

A couple of other reasons you may or may not be interested in me. I'm not looking for in person at the moment, and living in Australia it's unlikely it'd be practical with most of you anyway. I'm married and not looking to involve my partner/family. Which does place some restrictions on my availability. I see this ideally as an arrangement where you assign tasks and I fulfil as I'm able to, but if you think you can work around my limitation otherwise I'm happy to negotiate.

I guess I'm appealing to those of you who like the idea of breaking in a straight married guy.

Lastly, I've had a few uncomfortable experiences recently with people threatening non-consensual exposure. I've got some trust issues generally. So I don't want to show face. That said, I bought a hood a while back and I've found that recording tasks with the hood on does make me feel even more like an object.

If you've stuck with me so far, time to give you some ammunition.

I'm big on having a reason why I'm submitting. The easiest one (maybe) with guys is that you're "the real man". If you're bigger than 5.5 inches downstairs when hard that's the easiest reason to tell me I need to submit to you.

If you're into hypnosis I'd be very interested in talking about how we can incorporate that, but that's a negotiation first area. I've had a couple of people trying to implant malicious personalities without consent that I'm pissed off about.

I'm rocking a dad bod at the moment. Trying to lose a bit of weight. I like the idea that I need to be working out to be eye candy for someone.

Lastly, I always enjoy feeling like I'm at the bottom of the totem pole. So if you're a couple or a Dom with a sub who wants to try switching I like feeling like I'm being ganged up on a bit.

Kink list:

My likes: Verbal humiliation/degradation, SPH, CBT, Pain, Anal, Watersports, Bondage, Spanking, Bladder control, Enforced exercise, Protocols, Language restrictions Forced Bi, Supremist beliefs (E.g. race play - only in the context of consensual kink).

My interests: Hypnosis, Sensory deprivation, writing tasks (writeforme.org or linepunishment.com).

My dislikes: Semi-public, Roleplay, Chemical play (icy hot, toothpaste), Ice, Urethal play, Hot wax, Edging, Orgasm Denial, Crossdressing, Ruined orgasms.

My limits: Public, Shaving, Chastity, Fire play, Extreme pain/Permanent damage, Make up, Scat, Messy, Gross, Dancing, Face pics.

At my discretion: Leaving marks (bruises, broken skin, body writing)