Let's get right into it! Following a pretty successful poll the other day, an overwhelming number of you voted in favor of having some specific themes and flairs for different types of personals, so I'm gonna implement these, so you'll be able to be more specific quickly about what you're looking for.

As a member of the subreddit, you'll be able to flair your own profile according to what your preferences are. Looking for something more long-term? Maybe you're just after a quick-fix. One thing that's always been consistent in communities like this is that it's difficult to honestly match-up with someone looking for the same thing as you. So if you can quickly identify yourself and what you're looking for, those reaching out to you should do so while being respectful of your expectations.

You may have noticed, I've been going through and manually adding flairs to posts according to what it looks like you're after, but remember you're welcome to do that too before posting, it eliminates the risk of me accidentally mis-identifying your needs.

You may have noticed, we've got a new theme, representative of both the BDSM community and of course the gay-scene too, hope you like it, feel free to give any feedback.

One last thing - We're still looking for willing volunteers to help out with day-to-day moderation as we grow, so if you're up for the task, drop me a message.