Aussie men don’t care if you shit their dicks during anal sex? (Gay guys only)

Hi all,

I’m Spaniard and I moved to Australia a couple of years ago. However, I have started dating guys recently, and just not having ‘one-night stand’. Something that has got me chocked recently is that Aussie guys don’t care if you a bit or mess/fecal matter comes into play by mistake during anal sex. All the guys I have dated have told me that it’s completely fine if it happens, and if someone tries to embarrass me cuz of it they are assholes. One guy I am dating at the moment told me that I didn’t need to spend endless hours douching, he understands that something might happen and he is fine with it. He also mentioned that if we get into a more serious stage, he would like to have ‘unplanned sex’ and he doesn’t expect me to be cleaned for it.

I love Aussie men, and don’t get me wrong I am not criticising this, but where I am from gay guys would never tell you this.

Maybe is a cultural shock or something else. Please share similar stories / your thoughts if you can 😊.