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Idk in my experience most gay men can get it if they put themselves out there enough. Being hot helps a lot but unlike being straight, where you have to be “hot” to get something fast, I don’t think that’s true when you’re gay.
So being white definitely helps. I won’t lie; they are the most likely to get attention. But as someone who is Latino and dark skinned…I haven’t done badly for myself at all. Especially these days. 20 years ago it was a little more spotty though I still did fine with guys of all backgrounds. But these days it’s A LOT better.
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I feel this. I do very well for myself in person. Significantly so. Online it’s also much harder for me. It’s almost a different skill set to get a guy online.