Not that I have issues with them knowing, its just I get assumed to be straight so if I were to mention "oh this guy i was dating" and then I worry they will be like "omg I didnt know you were gay!!1! :O "

And its not that I care, that just sounds so awkward. And like its just people at work like I dont really care what they know or don't know. So I've been just avoiding the issue

The problem is now im dating a guy and like at work just usually call him my roommate, and like I didnt think it mattered because like, who cares about the random people I work with, but my boyfriend got super pissed at me. He picked me up the other day and he was really mad because when I come out later than when I said I would get off he says he thinks I'm cheating on him with someone at work, and with the roommate thing he was like "why do you want people at work to think your single???!"

Which like, isn't anything to do with why I was doing that. So like I get why he's upset but him accussing me of cheating really hurt me. Plus like we have an open relationship so. Why would I do that. Why would I hide something from him when I have no reason to

Anyway sorry for rambling but does anyone know how I can get over this fear of saying anything that people will know I'm gay? I dont want to be hurting my boyfriends feelings and upsetting him like that