I see a lot of post around here from people who are scared because they think they're gay, or not straight. What you guys need to get is that being gay isn't scary.. it's not something to be afraid of. Being true to yourself feels really good. Holding the man you love and looking into his eyes and telling him you love him feels really good. I would describe being gay as a pleasurable experience in essence.

What's scary is pretending to be straight. What's scary is feeling like the world is ready to pounce on you after you make one mis-step. What's scary is setting up associations with people under false pretenses and not knowing if you can actually trust them or not.

Being gay isn't scary. Being closeted is. Lying to yourself is.