Just met a new guy about 2 months ago, a few weeks ago he got sick and then was out of town for work. We didn't see each other for about 10 days. during that time, I took care of myself 3 times. When he got back we hooked up and he said he hadn't released since the last time we hung out. He asked me and I said me too...but kept asking. So i told him I did a few times. He got so mad at me, and now every time we're close to having sex, he brings this up and says would I rather do that or be with him. We've had this arguement 4 times, but not sure what else to say. Do most guys stroke in relationships or just have sex with their partner?