I gather that there are a lot of bad blowjobs being handed out and reducing the interest of some guys. Here are my principles. Feel feel to comment and share your own ideas.

1. Get comfortable. I put my top on a couch and sit on a pillow on the floor before him with his cock conveniently in my face.

2. Take your time. Use your heart and not your mouth.

3. To take a man into your throat, first assess the size and the curvature of the cock. If it’s too big, it’s not going to go in and will just create discomfort for you both. Apply gentle pressure, easing it further, stroke by stroke, until he slips smoothly in.

4. Maintain control. You’re the bottom: you get to say what and where and when.

5. Never let anyone fuck your head. It’s uncomfortable and an insult to your skills.