Hey All,

I'm sorry if this post doesn't belong here, I'm just looking for some advice. I'm new to this, so if I say something really fucked up or not correct, please understand it isn't meant to be. I just don't know any better and if you could please correct me. Thank you.

About a year ago I had my first ever attraction to a guy at a bar. We hit it off, it was incredible and I would've explored more this him. He made me feel super comfortable and it "felt normal". I say this not to be offensive, but I was never attracted to guys before, so that's the best way I can explain it. It was an amazing experience. He asked me what I liked and what I wanted. He straddled me... which is my fucking love language. He sucked Mt dick and the whole time I was fucking giddy like some middle school first kiss. Which is fucking hilarious for a 6', bearded, 250 lb guy. 🤣 It's alright, I can laugh at myself. I was hesitant about fucking him for a few reasons and I expressed that to him. He completely understood and never forced me into anything. We spent the night together, but sadly I was only there visiting family and headed back to where I live 400mi away. Since then, I've never really found any other guys attractive. Until....

I found a guy on Grindr, because I was really in the mood for head. I guess I have a type 🤷‍♂️, younger, small bodies, petite, smooth, clean shaven with dark hair and dark eyes. And I found not 1, but 2 guys. Both I could see myself fucking, because I'm attracted to them... but here's the issue. I've never fucked a guy before, so I'm looking for any tips and pointers. I'm not a selfish prick and I want it to feel good for both of us. Also, Im not looking to hurt them. Help! Please!

Also, maybe a stupid question, but can a guy cum just from getting fucked and without stroking him? 😂 I feel like that's a really fucking dumb question, but I'm REALLY have no fucking clue with guys.

While on the topic of stupid questions. I've had gay friends in the past talk and overheard them talk about stretching. Do all guys do this? Because I don't want that. I want a guy to stretch on my dick and lmk when he's ready. I just feel like it would be intimate and give me some time to explore his body, kiss him, and feel him open up for me. Then he can let me know when I can take over and go harder. I just think it would be hot. Is it rude to ask a guy if he stretches? Is it rude or disrespectful to ask him not to?

I appreciate any advice and tips (probably the wrong thing to say with this crowd 😂).