Hi all,

I’ve always been attracted to older men, and I’ve especially fantasized about meeting an older man in public and eventually either hooking up or developing a friendship/relationship with him. I don’t know why, but especially straight-acting older men attract me. You know, the daddy/grandpa type.

I wouldn’t consider myself a bad looking guy. I’m hispanic, mid 20s, 200 lbs, around 5’10 and I would say I’m discreet acting, very friendly.

I’ve met several men in public but I feel like there comes a point in the conversation where I don’t feel it goes anywhere or I don’t feel confident/safe to let them know about my attraction.

Would being direct about it be more effective? Any general/specific tips on the topic that have worked for you?

Thanks!