Hello fellow gamers, the title explains my general question. But there is a side question which is to help me narrow down my search. Over the last 2 weeks I've been researching the hell out of gaming chairs. Checking out reviews on SecretLab, Noblechairs, Vertagear, DX-Racer, AK-Racing, Corsair, Razer, Backforce, Andaseat, etc. All the reviews keep pointing me in the direction of the SecretLab Titan. But some people I've spoken to say Secretlab chairs are extremely firm to sit on and feel like they cut off bloodflow to your legs.

Now, I'm a big guy. I'm 6'3/6'4, weigh 225lbs, and I have pretty broad shoulders, I don't have any back issues per se but I do have some bad posture. I know there's a debate between office chairs & gaming chairs, let me be clear, I want a gaming chair for the aesthetics, yes I am that shallow. But I do want it to be comfortable and dare I say cushy for long gaming session / watching Netflix. I don't want my butt to feel numb after an hour. And preferably made with fabric upholstery. Also, I live in The Netherlands, bare in mind that some brands I didn't mention might not be available here, like Cybeart for example.

What would you guys recommend?