Hi everyone,

40yo male from Northern Ireland looking for a feeder to encourage me to gain. I know it's a long shot but I've tried gaining before on my own in the summer and added 10lbs but faltered, went back to my old ways and lost it again so currently sitting at 165lbs.

Ideally I'd like someone to keep me accountable, encourage me to gain and when I wobble make sure I don't lose it!

My first goal is 15-20lbs by New Year, to take advantage of the season and end up filling out my existing clothes at Christmas parties and resolving to having to buy a bigger wardrobe in the new year. After that it's getting moobs, stretch marks, reaching the point where there's no point going backwards and just going for it.

Getting pressure from people to go to the gym and diet, but really just there to dirty bulk, add some size to my arms and chest but secretly stuff myself so I just end up bigger despite being at the gym.