My libido is unfortunately not what it used to be, but when the mood is right, I love tormeting my clit and I wanted to share some of my favourites, and hopefully inspire some of you in the spirit of sharing :)

I love asking people for tasks, and I'm always seeking for more creative ways to do it. I love to start with a good pumping session, cause it's always more fun when the target is bigger. I'm not so much of a fan of hitting it, or at least, I'm kind of too weak-willed to Really hit it myself. But I like a good pain that builds up. I like brushing it with a rough toothbrush, and applying stuff to it.

My favourite so far is ginger. It's just the right amount of hot, it layers very well, which is important for the build up part. It's easy to stuff under the clit hood, too. I wasn't expecting it to be my favourite, but from all the things I tried, this was the best. Tiger balm and Icy Hot are too overwhelming and you can't build up with them. Hot sauce can be a little too much for me. Toothpaste is nice for a good brushing, but kind of inconvenient because of how.. dry it is. Though I guess dryness is the way to go for some treatments.

I love rubbing my clit with rough stuff. Not so much sandpaper, because again, I don't find it.. layers as well. I think my thing is soreness, I like playing with the soreness aspect. The brush is nice, but it's both not enough and too much at the same time. I think the ideal texture for that would be something like one of those really rough dry towels, but I can't seem to get that right.

I like clamping it. I have a devil's lotus clamp, which is sorta similar to a claw machine's claw. Some of you will know that it isn't always easy to find a clit clamp that fits, especially if you have bottom growth. This one is perfect. The downside is that it fully covers the clit, so you've got to commit to not doing anything else while it's on, but it really, REALLY digs in. And it's even nicer if you manage to weigh it down somehow, because of how tightly it holds. It's honestly kind of scary to use sometimes, in a good way.

This CAN count as pain I guess if it's wayyy too overwhelming for you, but I love overstim. But once again, it's one of the things I'm wayy too weak-willed to do myself.

I'd never thought I would be into things that hurt like that, but honestly it's one of the things that makes me the wettest. As a mostly solo player, it's also the most fun thing to do, outside of stretching myself with toys. But that's for another post lol.

I don't mind interactions here or in dms, just know that I'd prefer to stick to other queer people. As far as terms, make sure to ask before if you're unsure. I just wanna know what y'all think, what some of your favourite torment methods are, etc!