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I need some advice for coping with this because I cant bind and literally having a flat chest is my only way to even try passing because I have a lot of fem features I cant help (doe eyes, slight frame, wide hips). Thankfully my chest isnt HUGE but its the big end of small and the small end of big, as I like to put it. TransTape is helpful, but I cant afford to refill my stash and I struggle with removing it safely and always end up tearing some skin. Compression bras dont do enough. I buy clothes to fit me with my binder on, and they show my chest more unless im wearing giant ass frumpy tees which are just frumpy rather than ya know masc in any way. Im on a tight budget and cant just revamp my whole wardrobe and I may need to not bind for like a month or two.
Thankfully my support is really tight but i cant deal with it at work when im one-on-one dealing with customers and stuff. Correcting is really scary because I think of all the responses they could say to invalidate me and out me by pointing out my appearance. It just really sucks that I cant be myself and dress alternatively and still pass, especially with this hurdle I have to get through and the stomach issues on top of everything.
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