I'll preface this by saying I'm only out online, and haven't so much as begun to transition in real life, neither socially nor physically. Not on T, nothing. We're still a ways from there.

But still, I'm heavily consideing getting top surgery eventually. I feel like I have a problem, though. Ok, so my areolas are HUGE. Like, bigger than Oreos big, and I don't have such a huge chest either. I've been told by a nonbinary friend that for top surgery you could pretty much customize your chest. Like, I know I would want to look like I have slightly developed pecs, I feel like that's a good look on me rather than absolute flatness. And I know that depending on how surgery is done, you can keep the ability to breastfeed. I wouldn't hate to be able to do that some day. But I don't want monster areolas on my man chest.

I know nothing, does anyone know something, or can anyone point me in the direction of good resources?