Hey guys. I’m pre everything and actually not completely out to everyone yet. Most of my friends though and some cousins. For some reason I always feel slightly uncomfortable talking about transitioning with my girlfriend and I’ve been with her for about 4 years. We’re both 30 yrs old. When we first got together, I told her I had thoughts about transitioning one day. She said she had nothing against transgender, and she doesn’t. She’s part of the lgbtq community obviously but she’s bisexual and has only been with cis men and women. Nothing in between. Her ex boyfriends are like super tall ex military manly men. She tells me she loves me for me and would be there for me, whatever I decide but I can’t help but feel she doesn’t want me to actually go through with it all. I told her this morning in a text that I don’t feel her support or encouragement and she said “it’s not my place to discourage or encourage your decisions but I’m here for you no matter what”. When we’ve gotten drunk and I open up more to her about things, she’s more open talking about it with me and says stuff like “yeah you’d be a really hot guy “ etc. A couple exes I’ve had in the past were really into it and super encouraging and it made me feel amazing and I’m missing that from her. But I can’t change who she is or how she acts. She just doesn’t make it as exciting as it should be for me I guess. She does refer to me as “dad” to our dogs lol and she will say he or they sometimes so that’s nice. But when I don’t shave my legs, she makes comments like funny ones not too serious but still kinda gets to me. She’ll be like “no shaving this month again?” Or “ ewww. That’s really intense. Let my grab the lighter and burn them” and we’ll both kinda just laugh about it but truth is, what if I’m actually starting to transition and is she going to shut up about stuff like that. Maybe she’s like over guys and wants me to stay female. Idk. It’s so confusing. Has anyone had problems with a partner or advice? She’s really passive and that makes me a little passive talking to her about this stuff cuz she doesn’t have much response.