To start, I am a heavy trans man. I am not on testosterone at the moment, but hopefully soon. I'm over 200 pounds and my chest is size F . I no longer wear bras because they push up too much, so I wear tight sports bras to keep me somewhat okay.

Well, I got a binder, meant for my chest size, and it does not help at all. My chest pops out to the sides and just makes my underarms look weird and it doesn't even push my chest nearly as flat as I've seen other people's. I guess my question would be: am I just too heavy to bind? Am I going to be stuck with this until I can have surgery done? I'm so depressed whenever I try to bind because it just doesn't work.

Thanks in advance