I'm trying to look for my first binder. I'm not out to anyone yet, so they all still think I'm female (agender, but transmasculine). I'm going to be a bridesmaid (ew, hate that term) in a friend's wedding, so I'm going to need to find a dress. She's already found a website and told us a color, but she said the design is up to us. Most of the dresses have minimal, if any, straps, so I know that if I don't want the binder to be seen, I'll have to get a strapless binder. However, I'm a bigger person, and I heard that a full-length binder is best for those who are heavier. I want to be able to feel comfortable in my own body, but I also want to be able to find a dress that I could tolerate. What should I do?