I actually just found out I was pregnant a few days ago after a few months of trying, and while there are a ton of resources out there for pregnant women, there's not really anything out there for us. I'd love to know if there's... idk, a site, or blog, or Discord or whatever that's dedicated to trans parenting, or just to talk about it here!

I'm a first time trans gay parent (unless you count the years I spent raising my younger brother) with a cis pansexual male partner and we're both actually pretty excited, but we don't really have any tools to deal with this besides those targeted at cis straight couples. We know socially it will be extremely hard (we both work at the same place, same shift, and 99% of people there know me as only male due to some pretty decent supervisors), and it will be taxing emotionally and mentally for me, I'm sure. I'd love to know anything you wish someone had told you beforehand or like, any tips, tricks, etc., that would make this process a little easier for the both of us as we try and navigate still attempting to cling to my masculinity and sanity while I start down the path of looking like a Macy's Thanksgiving Parade float.