Basically just wanted somewhere to get this off my chest, and maybe other guys here can relate to it. Simply put, I HATE being a trans guy in the greater dating scene. Ignoring the large amounts of people who aren't into trans guys, the ones that are, are usually only into very specific transmasc stereotypes:

1) Hairless uwu soft femboy, boy-lite 2) Super muscular, hairy, and takes on all the roles heteronormative society says we should take on

With NO in between. Then people get mad when we're (I'm) not. I'm a short, thin, but hairy guy and I feel like I'm absolutely no ones type. I'm either getting rejected because I'm "too masculine" or "too feminine", or even if someone is into me, I get rejected cause I don't have a penis. (I'm mostly T4T so a lot of it comes from within the community)

Generally I just feel like masc trans men are the single most undesirable group out there, especially if you're not a stone top. I was once told by another trans guy, "no boobs and no dick, what's even the point then?" And that's kinda lived in my head rent free, and I feel represents how most people think of us. Men who are lacking something, or masc women who strayed too far off the course.

It's tough grappling with the overwhelming feelings of rejection because of who I am. I'm fairly happy with myself and the way I look, but when no one else seems to it's hard not to get hung up on it.

Not really looking for advice, just wanted to share my 2 cents 😭🙏