This question is for yall that top (particularly for those of us whose bottom growth is not able to penetrate). What toys do you use to make topping more enjoyable?

I personally do not really enjoy normal strap-ons just because the hip motion is not something that comes naturally to me and I tend to feel disconnected from my partner. I prefer to use my fingers generally, and with toys I've found the most success with a strapless dildo (one that you insert into your front hole so that the dildo itself is attached to you like a dick). I like this more because I get some actual sensation when fucking someone.

Does anyone have any other recommendations? I'm really yearning for the bio dick I don't have, and wondering if there is anything else I can try that will make topping a more pleasurable experience physically. (Emotionally, connection-wise, mentally, I love topping, but really just wish I could get more stimulation from it).

TIA!

Edit: my gf is trans, so preferably something that can be used for anal penetration!!! RIP the hot rod 😢 Edit again: the best option I've found from this thread is the Peecock Gen 4! Will definitely be saving up for that. Ty all for your help 🩵