Hi there, I bought an STP packer recently and I'm not sure how to use it most efficiently. I have a cake bandit harness and I've been using my silicone packer because I used to wear my packer way too high and I just always looked thrilled to be doing whatever I was doing lol. So I'm wearing the silicone one to get used to the placement. I was wondering how to use the STP? It doesn't have any suction and it's one that's got a cup that just rests against your body, so I'm worried about spillage and looking like I had an accident. I'm gonna try it in the shower before using it in public but I wanted to get some advice. It's not particularly bendy either so i was wondering how to wear it as a packer without looking like I'm bricked lol. Is there a trick to placing it against your body in a way where you can use it without accidentally pissing myself haha. Thanks in advance!