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I just started a new (blue collar) job and I'm struggling.
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Yesterday I started a full time summer job, pool cleaning and maintenance, some standard blue collar shit. I'm in a big city but the men there remind me of my shitty hometown which I hate.
The job itself, I like, but the problem is that I'm accidentally stealth- I kind of assumed that they could tell I was trans and were cool with it, but it seems that they see me as a cis man and are very comfortable sharing all their misogynistic views with me.
Like, super conservative redneck creeps that date women decades younger than them because older women have too high a body count/are "ran through and bitchy".

I don't know if I can handle working with these guys 8 hours a day 5 days a week until the end of June, however I really need a job, and it feels like a chicken move to just quit! I've been wanting to be stealth since I was a tween, and wanting to do a labour job for months, and now it feels like a punishment.

Are there any ways I can politely disagree with them and be on friendly terms without raising red flags about my identity? I don't want to just be complacent with their bullshit but I don't know what to do. Any other guys experience something like this?

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