I keep getting disowned by the commuinty because I pass. Or as they call me "a privileged trans" Alright. I've been transitioning for 5 years. I stopped informing the world and new people I meet 4 years ago. My transition is literally the least interesting part of my life and I've learned if people don't know, they can't fixate on it. Well recently, I was with a group of friends who had brought their other trans friend. I eventually made a comment to them about me also being trans (because my friends won't out me) and I made him SO mad. He thought I was mocking him and being a transopopic piece of shit. He didnt beileve anything I said and even asked for proof. Well, Ive had top surgetry, my name and gender marker on my DL has changed and obviously I wasn't going to drop my pants in the middle of a bar. I THINK he eventually believed me but his only comments before leaving were "well you don't look, or sound trans, and you have a whole ass beard...trans men don't usually have all of those." THAT COMMENT SHOOK ME. Idk where I'm getting at here I'm just mad. This is not the first time a community member has told me I don't look the part and that's just super fucked up. There are no first class seats in being trans. We're all the same no matter what we look like.