Hey I’m 19 FTM. I’ve been on t for over a year and I’m very much passing, (about 99 percent of the time) I met this guy on a kink app and thought about having a dynamic with him. He is in his 40s let’s just call him J. He knew that I am trans because it said on my bio. I assumed he was at the very least bisexual because I sound and look like a cis male. After meeting him and having some drinks he told me his son is my age. He also said that people in the restaurant we were in probably thought I was “his daughter”. That really rubbed me the wrong way x2. He also works with young people like myself that have mental health issues. He kept calling me she and I don’t know if it was pure disrespect or what. I asked him if he was straight and he said “what even is straight?”. He quite literally beat me with a stick and took a picture of me and was pressuring me to take my binder off but I didn’t. I didn’t use a safe word because I was too drunk to remember what word he said to use. I’ve been feeling bad/gross about it for awhile. I did consent but it feels so wrong. Should I block him? What are your opinions on this?