I’m Ftm and bisexual and have been dating my gf (also trans if it matters) for years now. It’s taken a lot for me to let her into my life because of some trauma from my past, but I feel like we’re doing well together yknow? Our relationship feels healthy for the most part. I know my gf doesn’t particularly like my genitals tho, which is ok, I don’t either, but it hurts a lot to hear her say things like how she doesn’t like the taste or smell of “vags” or how she has fantasies of me giving her a facial. Those are things I can’t change ( at least not rn) and will never be able to do. I just feel like I’ll never satisfy her wants sexually because of my anatomy :( I feel like maybe im less of a man because I’ll never be able to do the things she wants sexually from me, even tho I know that’s probably just me overthinking things and that she’d never tell me that. I don’t know what to do. Do I address how it makes me feel with her when I know she’ll end up at the false conclusion that she’s the worst gf in the world and she sucks (this has happened before when I address things that she did that made me upset)? Or do I just try and cope with it? I don’t want her to think she can’t tell me what she wants in bed or in life in general. She means the world to me and I don’t know what I’d do without her, but I want to both of us to be satisfied sexually, and it feels like neither of us are rn. Maybe I’m just over reacting tho