So it's come to light through happenings recently, that my friend no longer thinks of me as her best friend, and I just don't know where to go from here. I'm 24 and we've been friends for just over ten years, and from almost day one we've been best friends.

And we've certainly grown a lot as people in that time, but I'd always felt that we were growing alongside each other, if not always at the same point at the same time. But now it would seem that that's not the case and I just genuinely don't know what to do/think moving forward. Because I suspect this other girl, let's call her Aj, is now that person. I don't like Aj because for a time during her friendship with my friend, she was just a neglectful friend and didn't put any effort in, while my friend put in TONS of effort. So I'm low-key sort of pissed that we seem to have switched places now.

This all makes me want to just cut of contact with my friend, because if we're not best friends when I thought we were this whole time, what's the point? I know that seems like a huge overreaction, but how can I keep being friends with her when it's been one-sided for probably a couple years and I just had no idea? it feels like I've been demoted and I just don't know what to do.

Thanks 💕