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I'll keep this short.
I have a friend who is an introvert who "values his alone time"
He told me that his ideal friendship is one that is passive, e,g, you go weeks/months without contact.
He told me that he saw a friend of his that he didn't see for 3 months and in his words they were still cool and didn't take it personally.
I, on the other hand, am an ambivert.
I do not relate to the idea of "valuing alone time".
I prefer active friendships, e,g, we converse and see each other regularly.
In 2020, I had a friend who I saw 7 weeks in a row and we chatted every day, I felt really close to him.
My friend and I both have a lot in common and we get along but we don't chat much.
We've currently not chatted for 3 weeks.
We are friends but I don't feel close to him due to the lack of communication and I am going to talk to him about this.
How do you think a friendship can work between us?
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