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Please read the bottom before DMING: Hey all, how are you? I'll be upfront. I'm a 20F who struggles to make friends in the city for the following reasons..
- i don't go out to parties/big events as i do not drink/smoke/party and im more of a modest person with certain morals and values
- i grew up a bit sheltered by my parents (ik im their little baby still haha) so they'd always ask questions, which makes sense
- although i have a small youtube channel and can be very bubbly, im also pretty careful when it comes to meeting new people
About me: i love psychology, philosophy, thinking deeply, conspiracies! i question a lot of things and im a very curious person, i looove music as well and dancing (but its hard to find people with the same passion for dancing and singing as i do other than joining dance studios lol). music is everything to me, i express myself a lot through music with my imagination. i love honesty and deep connection, i am not the type of person that likes to have surface level conversations all the time. myers briggs tells me im an INFJ.
My ideal friend would have the same/similar interests, is goofy & playful but also can be serious, respects boundaries, and stands firm on their morals/values/beliefs, also someone that doesn't smoke/drink/take substances.
Ideal age range would be 20-27 and although I am okay with any ethnicity, I would say I get along really well with Hispanics (I'm Italian) due to similar cultural values, language, etc. I also love Latin music and I am trying to learn more Spanish as I can speak/understand at a casual conversational level.
If my post caught your attention, please send me a message. I know it may sound pretty selective but I am big on feeling like I can be myself and safe/comfortable around someone and I believe there's the right person/people out there for everyone.
Thank you!
BEFORE REACHING OUT, PLEASE INCLUDE YOUR INTERESTS and a bit about you. im big on quality over quantity when it comes to friendship. I woke up to over 40 message requests so i will say this.. 1) ill be avoiding dms with no/super short intros. 2) although it can be nice to get along with one interest, i am trying to find someone/people that share multiple of my interests/personality traits. its easy to find people who are passionate about music but not as easy to find people that deep think, are goofy, have strong morals, AND are passionate about music.
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