I have a friend i met in college. I know him for 2 years. (2020). then i graduated in 2022. We were really close, we spent a lot of time together in college. we used to hang out and have lunch all the time. Now that i graduated.

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I feel like he has changed. He doesn't reach out as much, and i am noticing that i am putting more of an effort into keeping us together as friends. He also forgot my birthday too, and i am second guessing our friendship 100. Plus i saw him in person (through a mutual friend) and he didn't seem like himself.

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I realized that over the past year i been the one putting in the effort into the frendship, and i haven't heard much of a response from him It feels like it's one sided. It's fustrating cause i know i was once impnrtant in his life.

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I been wanting to talk to him about it and tell him that i don't feel okay with how our friendship is going and i would like to talk to talk about it but he is always busy.

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I do understand that a person is busy but i don't understand a person not putting much effort at all.

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3 weeks ago i sent him a message and asked him if that week would be okay to call, and he says no it wouldn't (cause he had finals). then i said "let me know when you can" and he read it but he did leave it on open.

What is your advice?