If you have never meet with anyone or continue to experience no success I hope this helps. Keep in mind I am 34yrs old, I cannot speak for other women or other ages.

1) Begin by fully reading whatever it is they posted. IN DETAIL, do not skip a part.

2) If a post states to send anything in particular when messaging… DO EXACTLY AS IT STATES. Do not alter or add. It is specific for a reason

3) If you are not in their location don’t bother to reach out unless you have a house/apartment to host or are willing to pay for the hotel. (And say so)

4) Message with intent and a plan. Starting with your stats or asl is one of the best starts. (Age, sex, location, usually height, weight and dick description.

5) Be cautious of what you say when messaging. It does not matter if their post says “Eat Me Out” you should begin with respect and leave room for the female to be comfortable enough to begin telling you how they like to be talked too, touched, fucked, etc.

6) Be there for the woman not entirely and selfishly for yourself. We can tell by the messages. Example: I want to cum on your face This should not be a first message if you have not discussed these things with the person you are messaging.

I hope this helps someone. Good luck. Have fun. Stay safe!