I have no idea , but the only way I see this stuff happening is in the following manner.

Case 1 : Get approached by a domme in irl or online {and by domme , I mean a genuine person , basically not a scammer} , the likelihood of this is close to Zero .

Case 2 : Find a domme {online or irl } and approach her {this scenario working out is also highly unlikely}

Case 3 : {The realistic approach}

Step a : get into a normal relationship with high levels of trust {Which is hard enough on its own, my introverted ass could never lol }

Step b : After making a safe space and understanding the temperament of your partner. Slowly start doing things for her {like basic chores, listen to what she wants and all of that jazz , basically try to prioritise her }.

Step c : Slowly introduce her to flr , if acceptable then proceed, if not then stay in relationship if you can live without flr lifestyle {because a trustable and amazing partner for kink is not ideal and should be avoided} , if not then back to step a

Step d : ???? I don't know bro {I have never been in a relationship} but keep integrating flr lifestyle elements {only the parts with which both of you are comfortable}

Step e : PROFIT {congratulations now you are in a flr }