When I started my FLR exploration journey, I was, like most others, attracted by erotic content on the internet.

I learned that FLR or Femdom is about kinks and fetishes, chastity and pegging, domestic discipline and spanking and what not!

Then I stumbled upon some readings where they were talking about "How to" stuff in Femdom. I got bored reading them. Then I started listening to some good podcasts and they also talked about how to stuff.

Further, I found some forums and they talked nothing about the erotic content.

At that point I realized that FLR is far more than just kinks and fantasies.

I had to unlearn all the garbage that was fed into my brain over the months and learn about ethical practices, emotions and practicalities in Femdom.

That's actually when I felt that I'm growing as a submissive. That's when I felt that I'm actually going to be useful to my Mistress.

I also realized that if I was going to introduce my Mistress to FLR with all the erotic content, she would have freaked out. I was lucky to realize it sooner rather than later.