Last week or so the wife has been in a foul mood in general,I've been on my best behaviour,done all the right things and attended to her needs as usual,ran her a bath last night and got her a glass of wine,when she finished she requested I shave her which generally indicates she wants oral ,I shaved her and proceeded to perform oral on her,she's way wetter than usual and her clit was huge and sensitive,I usually get her off in about 3 minutes but this time after about 10 minutes she stopped me and said enough,she hadn't orgasmed,I left her to go clean the bathroom and when I was finished on my way to the laundry I stopped outside our bedroom and peeked through the crack and could see my wife furiously masterbating with a really thick dildoe which I've never seen her do alone ,her eyes where closed and she was repeatedly saying yes yes yes,I was as hard as a rock when she sat up and said fuck it and throwed the dildoe into the closet,slumped back on the bed and covered her face with a pillow and screamed into it,how do I deal with this?just let it go or confront her and make it worse?? Help me