Hi guys,

I recently met someone new and we have our first date (getting coffee) planned for the day after tomorrow. Even though we haven't met in person yet, we have texted a lot and I have opened up to her about how I am looking for a female led relationship.

At first she was unsure and had a lot of questions, but she did a little reading on her own and as I told her more about how I envision a FLR and answered her questions, she really got on board with it.

Obviously, it remains to be seen if we will really be compatible and end up seriously dating, but as of now she is open to explore starting a FLR together. She knows that I want to be cucked and she is open to that. I also expressed that I'm happiest in a service-oriented dynamic in which she has the final say. We also discussed her controlling my orgasm and both of us prioritizing her satisfaction during sex.

I do have two concerns. First, I have not yet brought up the actual concept of a chastity cage, which is really at the heart of what I hope for in a female led dynamic. I'm a little scared to bring it up and I don't want to scare her off. Secondly, I have a strong sense that she is a very sexual woman who values sex and wants a lot of it. Im worried because I don't tend to perform like a total stud in the bedroom and I also long for full time chastity with only rare opportunities for PIV sex.

Anyway, she said she wants to talk about what the basic rules might look like in our FLR when we go out, and I am hoping you guys can help give me some ideas. Here is what I was thinking so far:

- I am allowed to give input and suggestions when there is a decision to be made, but her choice is final. I should respect her decisions without question.

- No porn allowed for me.

- No cumming for me without her permission.

- I try to do as much as I reasonably can to improve her life and make it easier.

- I consult her before I make plans or commitments.

- I prioritize her schedule and needs over my personal leisure activities.

- I support her goals and interests.

- I regularly express gratitude and appreciation for her leadership.

-Anticipate her needs and fulfill them without being asked.

I would love any advice or further suggestions for rules, as well as anyone's input on how/if/when to bring up the chastity cage. Thanks guys!