Just found this place and thought it would be good to share my story.

Most of my life, I have been fairly normal and average. Had dated little bit in high school and college but nothing too crazy. After college, I went into the corporate world and got a decent enough job. Dating started becoming easier and easier for me. By the time I was 27, I was feeling very confident dating women and felt really good about myself and where my life was headed.

It was right around this time, I met my now ex wife. She was beautiful, blond, midwestern WI girl. Down to earth. Conservative and religious type. In public she was your typical sweet loving girlfriend. And we just had this most insane connection right off the the bat. We'd have incredible sex every time. I can't even describe it. After a couple years, we moved in together, got engaged and married. She is an only child and from a fairly wealthy family. She is very used to getting her way but I loved her more than anything.

Sexually, she was extremely open and adventurous. She was wild. More wild than me. She had a much higher sex drive than me too. But there was one thing always off limits, anal sex. And I would bug her all the time to let me try it. I never did anal with anyone in my life and always wanted to. But no matter what, she'd always tell me no. Didn't matter how drunk or horny she was. It was always off limits.

Well I didn't let up on annoying and bugging her to let me try. One day she'd be like fine but I have to let her use a dildo on me first. And I agreed. She was like, "you'd really let me put a dildo in your ass?" and I was like "yeah if it means I get to try anal with you." Well that was how this all started. She picked out a few toys online and ordered it. One saturday we were bored and horny and decided to try it out. She started with a small dildo. I never had anything or anyone in my butt to this point in my life. We were making out while she was moving this dildo in and out of me slowly and then she told me to bend over at the side of the bed. So I did. She got up and put on this strap on she bought and she started to fuck me with it. And I just took it. It hurt but also felt good at the same time. And she was teasing me talking dirty etc.

Then after a little while. I just lost all control and had an orgasm from this strap on. And I think this is where it all started to progress. She realized it turned her on being more dominant and in control and I started to yearn for these anal orgasms from her strap on. We did start regularly having anal sex from this point forward. Both me fucking her and her fucking me.

But also. She really started getting into this dom role more and more. And I started falling more and more into this submissive role at times. We'd both read and learn and explore together. It wasn't long before she bought a chastity and I'd be wearing it for days at a time. The chastity is what forever changed our dynamic. Suddenly she had full control. Suddenly I was at her mercy. She started having me start wearing panties or calling me by my feminine name. Halloween she would dress me up fully as a woman. Then it turned into going out as girlfriends every so often in public for a dinner or bar or whatever.

It just progressing. It was intense and exciting. We were so in tune it was crazy. But then things took a wild turn to a whole new level. She started encouraging me to go on dates with men. We never had slept with anyone outside of marriage up until this point but she told me told she really wanted to see me with a man. She didn't have to join in but would at least want to watch. At first I was like no way in hell. But she would push and push. Finally I agreed to just make a tinder profile and see where it goes.

She would help me make the tinder profile. Help me with pictures fully dressed as a woman. etc. It was insane how many matches I was getting right off the bat. Like I could not keep up at all. I am super picky and it took a while for me to find the right guy to meet up with. I remember being so fn nervous going on my first date. She went with me to the bar to meet him. I was trembling so nervous. Soon as he showed up. She got up and left me with him. After settling down and calming my nerves. I remember having a fun time with him. Soon as I got home, she'd want to know every detail of our dates.

It sort of helped that we were on different schedules. Meaning she'd go to bed early around 9pm and wake up early. Where as I am more of a night out. I am usually up until midnight or later but not waking up as early. But she would always be encouraging me to see him, give in to my feminine side, let my inner female come out. Things like that. The first few weeks flew right by. We would hang out once or twice a week after my wife would go to bed (with her approval). The more time I was with him, the closer and more connected I started feeling to him. And she loved every minute of it for me. She'd always be interested to hear about our dates. She never pushed me or forced me to do anything sexual with him. She'd just always say I'll know when it feels right and to go at my own pace.

But it wasn't long before she wanted to see someone new too. And selfishly I just couldn't handle her being with another guy. And that was when all the fighting started.

Sorry for typing a novel. Lol. Happy to share more details.