As part of our very happy FLR, my wife and I have been working on making me more feminine over the last couple years. This has worked wonders for us, both personally and as a couple, which I won’t get into because that’s a novel. I’ve reached the point where I wear feminine clothing everyday and I groom myself like most women but I don’t wear makeup. My outward appearance is still male, and most people don’t notice that I’m crossdressed unless they have a keen eye. Fast forward to Wednesday. Wife asks if I want to go to the park nearby to do the fitness course. It was late in the day, I put on a women’s workout t shirt and leggings with shorts over and she says “it’s late why worry about the shorts?” I happily oblige, and we leave. Halfway through our workout, she wants to take a pic, so we do a funny, cute pose like two girlfriends working out together would do, full body shot and that’s that. She then posted it on Insta and FB without telling me. Totally casual. “Getting our pre-Halloween workout in.” More than 800 people saw it. My sister, godmother, aunties, cousins… and all my old friends, former “bros.” I am who I am now and I’m proud of the submissive femboy husband I’ve become, the pic is very cute, I don’t look totally girly but it’s pretty obvious if you look those are women’s clothes and men don’t wear leggings without shorts in public, right? All the public comments were innocuous and positive. I feel outed in a weird way. I’m not angry at my wife because I agreed to her posting about our life, but there were some people that I definitely didn’t want to see that pic. Like, there’s a poker night I know I won’t be asked back to, lol. Just wanted to get this off my chest. Another exercise in acceptance of status. Has anyone had a similar experience?