For various reasons I've never felt able to be comfortable with playing with my sexuality. I know that I like the femdom dynamic and my girlfriend enjoys it but i think we struggle with how it should look and even what it could look like. I'd love if there was a couple with this dynamic that we could talk to to see how others make it work and to hopefully get over my anxieties about my sexuality by normalizing it a bit.

Would really appreciate this and a dinner would be yours for the taking (home made or out).

Ideally looking for couples who do the dynamic outside of sex too, including domestic stuff etc.

In particular I'm interested in a submissive humiliation and degredation thing with clear roles and lots of serving and worshipping. We have tried and enjoyed chastity and pegging and restraint but it's getting the dynamic to stick in our real world that is a challenge. Can you help?