Warning ABDL themes, sadism themes, and chastity themes. If you dislike either probably not the post for you :)

So my husband and I have been together for really long time. We go through phases. We are very very into FLR. I have told plenty of my friends and some of our family knows as well. Of course, we respect not involving people who don’t consent into it.

Anyway! We have kids and a very full life and things that get in the way of this sometimes So one thing that we like to do is to create rituals or things that he hast to do that don’t require me to do a lot or have a lot of input.

For instance, yesterday I made him pick either A, B, or C. If he had chosen A, I was gonna put him in a little embarrassing underwear all day as a reminder of his place under me B was a day in the chastity cage. C was a day in diapers.

He chose B and he had to wear his cage all day.

He wakes up early in order to do some chores for me and to get some extra work in (gotta spoil the queen haha)

So in order for him to be able to start his submission while I am still asleep, last night I made him pick again. This time he chose A and today he will be spending his entire day in diapers -which he will be peeing in. I don’t like to be bothered with having to check his diaper and we have plenty of experience with it so he knows what I expect. By that I mean how often I would allow him to change his diaper and when and all that kind of thing. I will probably tease him a bit about it for my own fun WHEN/IF I choose, but other than that, I will relish in the fact that he is out there sitting in a soggy diaper working hard for my luxury and obeying me even though I don’t have to constantly be doing things for it or to make it happen.

Just thought that realm or experience or idea may be useful for other females leading when they are tired of the seemingly need for constant input:)