Ok, so I don’t have a boyfriend or ever had one for that matter, but is it bad that I want to be the main provider? Like, it’s fine if he wants to work and I even would encourage it because it can be good to have a profession, but like his money would be his to him to do his things, I don’t want him worrying about bills and stuff… but I worry this might be seen as not wanting him to have financial independence which is not the case, I just want him to NOT worry about it because I can take care of things, you know?
I’d want him to take care of planning our trips/holidays, cleaning and laundry (not cooking because I love to cook and we would/could cook together). Am I being naive? Could anyone help me if I’m too delusional!! Is this even possible? I currently don’t earn a lot, but I’m working on building my career so I can afford my future husband’s and I a good life!