My partner (F29) I would consider to be vanilla but open to exploring kink. I would describe her pretty kinky when tipsy but otherwise vanilla - though she would dispute that. I’ve suggested we explore various sexual and non-sexual ways of encouraging her to assume a dominant role and I’m delighted to say she has agreed to me trying chastity - more so out of curiosity than rampant enthusiasm.

Anyway, I’m her first and only sexual partner, and I’d say there’s probably some repressed Catholic guilt around sexual exploration. We’ll be engaged next month so we are in for the long haul together and I have openly communicated my desire to explore various fantasies and ways of enhancing our relationship, such as cuckolding etc. She says she is open to such things in the future if the circumstances were right.

I’m just wondering if anyone has had any experience/success in encouraging/awakening a vanilla, non-experienced female partner to a dominant one? If so, how did you approach it? How long did it take for her to accept and embrace her dominance and leadership in the relationship? And is there anything I could be doing to nurture that confidence and dominance now to make it an easier role for her?

I feel like chastity will be a big head start already. Cage is due to arrive in the next week or so, so looking forward to seeing how that, if at all, starts to help her feel comfortable taking the reins, at least sexually.

Any advice, tips or resources would be much appreciated.

A hopeful sub.