My wife [36] and I [34] don’t want kids. This is crystal clear for us since we started dating almost 4 years ago. And even if we decide to have kids in the future, our first option would be adoption. My wife doesn’t like female contraceptive methods, because everything it causes to women’s bodies and the messed up sexist contraceptive industry. We usually don’t have penetrative sex as part of our FLR dynamic, but when it has a chance to happen, I lose my erection while putting a condom on.

With all that in mind, recently I offered to have a vasectomy and after discussing it with my wife, she got excited and even said the frequency of our penetrative sex could increase. So I reached out to my doctor and we will start discussing it soon.

But here is the interesting thing: since we started talking about it, I got hornier and felt even more submissive to her... I already stay in my cage from time to time, haven’t been allowed to fuck her in months (but worship her pussy several times per week) and now I will become infertile. Additionally, we talk about the possibility of her cucking me, and although she doesn’t show interest in doing it anytime soon, the idea that she would still be fertile while doing it drives me crazy (in a good way).

Have anyone else gone through a similar experience? Did the vasectomy change anything in your dynamic/relationship? Did you regret it at some point?