So before our date night yesterday my wife locked me. I had to please her and if I did a good job she would let me out. After serving the whole evening she was happy with me and she would let me out. I said me she can better keep me in.

So she did.

Now I’m happy and she is. I’m submissive, sweet and service oriented at this moment.

But the problem is. I’m a bit too excited and my experience is. She will “forget” about it and take me locked for granted.

She doesn’t have much experience and didn’t read anything about it.

Because of that I just want to give her hints and advice and because of that I talk too much about it sometimes and then she is done with it. (Which I can understand) and the whole dynamic is over again then.

So my question: How can I make sure she reads a bit about it or know what she does. And how can I make sure I don’t think and talk about it all the time