Besides all the orgasm control, bondage and whatever one enjoys in their femdom relationships, I've always wondered how many (if any) women enjoy when their man is emotionally dependent on them?

I hesitate to use the words '*clingy* or *needy* because they have negative connotations, but they sum it up pretty well. When I'm close to a woman I always feel that urge come through. I want her to be happy and I know she may want her own time alone and need to decompress, but when the power dynamics set in and I really feel like she's in charge, I feel unsettled if we're apart.

This is especially strange because in every other way I'm the opposite. I'm very independent and focused on my own life. I am sure of myself and confident but deep down I know those feelings are still there and I worry about getting close to someone and her bringing them to the surface.

Similarly, there are those women that force control of a man- they have to know his activity, expect him to check in and ask permission for simple things. That seems like a lot. Do dommes actually enjoy it? Is it the sense of power they get from it?

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