My wife has recently started agreeing to cage me. She says she’s not THAT into it, but then actively tells me when to take it off and put it on. Additionally, she knows I have had several bisexual experiences in the past and will often fuck me with a lifelike dildo. When we aren’t in bed, she will say things like “using the dildo on you is just for you. It’s not my favorite thing.” But then will do things like she did last week…she’s is fucking me with a dildo and says “Is this the biggest one we have? I think you need a bigger one” and then tells me my job this past weekend was to find a bigger dildo! Basically, sometimes she acts like she doesn’t like my/out kinks but then she seems to enjoy it! I’m confused…is she only doing it for me? Or is she still struggling with embracing something her upbringing tells her she shouldn’t like??